The Gospel According to St. Matthew
The King James Bible
Matthew 19:2-12
Questions 2 And great multitudes followed him; and he healed them there. 3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? 4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. 10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. 12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it. |
Margin notes:
"The Pharisees also came unto him." (19:3) - Means, the Pharisees came to keep an eye on Jesus. "Tempting him." (19:3) - "Testing Him." "Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?" (19:3) - "Is it permitted for a man to divorce his wife for any reason." "Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female." (19:4) - You can read this in Genesis 1:27 and 5:2. "For this cause shall a man leave father and mother..." (19:5) - Jesus is paraphrasing Genesis 2:24. "They twain shall be one flesh?" (19:5) - "The two shall be as one." "Let not man put asunder." (19:6) - "Let no man separate." "Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement." (19:7) - The Pharisees are referring to the rules of divorce and remarriage outlined by Moses in Deuteronomy 24:1-4. However, in this passage, Jesus says that God only permitted divorce in the Old Testament because of the "hardness" of people's hearts (19:8). With few exceptions, God intended marriage to be a lifetime commitment. "Suffered." (19:8) - "Allowed." "Whosoever shall put away his wife...." (19:9) - Jesus is repeating this message from Matthew 5:32, Mark 10:11 and Luke 16:18. "If the case of the man be so with his wife." (19:10) - "If that is the case." "All men cannot receive this saying." (19:11) - "All men cannot accept this teaching." "Save." (19:11) - "Except." "Eunuchs." (19:12) - Emasculated males. Men or boys who have been castrated or whose testicles do not function. |
Mark 10:2-12 records this same teaching.
New Living Translation
Matthew 19:2-12
Discussion about Divorce and Marriage
2 Large crowds followed him there, and he healed their sick.
3 Some Pharisees came and tried to trap him with this question: "Should a man be allowed to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
4 "Haven't you read the Scriptures?" Jesus replied. "They record that from the beginning 'God made them male and female.'
5 And he said, 'This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.'
6 Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together."
7 "Then why did Moses say in the law that a man could give his wife a written notice of divorce and send her away?" they asked.
8 Jesus replied, "Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended.
9 And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery-unless his wife has been unfaithful."
10 Jesus' disciples then said to him, "If this is the case, it is better not to marry!"
11 "Not everyone can accept this statement," Jesus said. "Only those whom God helps.
12 Some are born as eunuchs, some have been made eunuchs by others, and some choose not to marry for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven. Let anyone accept this who can."
This second Bible text from the "New Living Translation" (Tyndale House, Publishers, Wheaton, Illinois) is a paraphrase and not an accurate word for word translation of the Bible. However, it is a helpful tool when read with the "King James Version."
Today's Questions:
1. What is God's ideal when it comes to marriage?
2. Is divorce wrong? (19:3-9)
1. What is God's ideal when it comes to marriage?
2. Is divorce wrong? (19:3-9)
Let me know if you have questions.
Answers: (Do you agree?)
1. Jesus tells us that God's ideal is for one man and one woman to marry for life, providing love and support to each other. The bond between a husband and wife should be even stronger than the relationship between a child and their parents (19:5).
2. Because marriage is a divine institution (19:4) in which a man and woman become one (19:5; Ephesians 5:31) God intended it to last a lifetime (19:6). But the Bible does say divorce is allowed in the case of adultery (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) or when a Christian (man or woman) is abandoned by their spouse because they don't believe (1 Corinthians 7:10-15).
1. Jesus tells us that God's ideal is for one man and one woman to marry for life, providing love and support to each other. The bond between a husband and wife should be even stronger than the relationship between a child and their parents (19:5).
2. Because marriage is a divine institution (19:4) in which a man and woman become one (19:5; Ephesians 5:31) God intended it to last a lifetime (19:6). But the Bible does say divorce is allowed in the case of adultery (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) or when a Christian (man or woman) is abandoned by their spouse because they don't believe (1 Corinthians 7:10-15).
Application thought for the day:
Instead of finding reasons to leave a spouse, couples should focus on devoting themselves to each other (19:3-9).
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